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You’ve got to a point now where you are fed up with dating because they never are the right person for you. 

You are realising that actually this “wrong” person is the kind of person you’ve been having relationships with your whole life. 

It is frustrating because why is everyone else managing to find the right person and you can’t?

The reason may be your energy and your subconscious. You may not want to hear that it is you getting in your own way and attracting the person you don’t want, BUT this is good, because it means you can change who you attract. 

So, what am I talking about when it comes to your energy and subconscious? 

I’m talking about your resistances and blocks: your beliefs, thoughts, past relationship experiences, childhood experiences, triggers, emotional reactions, and a whole bunch of other stuff. 

There are lots of things that come into play here. I’m going to look at 3 of them (otherwise we’ll be here all day) and it is important to note that quite often they can be interlinked.

When it comes to dating, I think it is fair to say that it is probably everyone’s preference to meet their future partner organically whether that be in a bar, through friends or perhaps at work. Unfortunately it doesn’t always happen like that. It’s becoming increasingly more difficult to meet people in this way especially this year due to covid and constant lockdowns. The obvious solution is online dating sites and apps but for many reasons people are seeking other alternatives and the use of matchmakers has significantly increased over the last few years. If you are wondering if a matchmaking agency is right for you I compiled a list of 10 reasons why you should use a matchmaker.